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John O’Groats & Your Personal Impact

Posted on September 6 2010 by simonbucknall

All my life, I have been led to believe that Lands End and John O’Groats form the extreme most south-westerly and north-easterly points of mainland Britain.

This summer, I travelled the far north of Scotland in a VW camper van (Orkney, Cape Wrath, outer Hebrides, the works). Imagine my shock when I learnt that John O’Groats is not the most north-easterly point at all!

The title should in fact belong to Duncansby Head, a remote headland crowned by a lighthouse about a mile to the east of John O’Groats village.

The lighthouse at Duncansby Head

Now, this is all very interesting, you may be thinking, but what’s it got to do with personal impact in the workplace?

Answer: uniqueness.

Standing at Duncansby Head I took a – some might say – rather childish pride in spending just a few moments as Britain’s ‘most north-easterly person’… within bombing range of Britain’s ‘most north-easterly seagulls’.

Every time you communicate with others, you have an opportunity to achieve a uniquely favourable impact on your listeners. No-one else has your precise expertise, your exact experience and perspective on the work that you do.

Maybe it was your personal contribution to the success of a recent client project; or the unusual combination of your past career experience with your current role.

So often, people take their ‘uniqueness’ for granted – the true value is invisible to them. I see it all the time in workshops where participants shy away from telling a personal story, or sharing an experience. They assume ‘everyone else already knows that’ or ‘other people won’t be interested’. Not true.

Take a moment to identify a couple of experiences or perspectives that only you bring to your current workplace. Believe me, you don’t have to drive all the way to Duncansby Head to be unique.

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  1. Kate McNeilly says:
    September 6, 2010 at 11:51 pm

    Good experience. Great application.

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  2. T Gary Jenkins says:
    September 8, 2010 at 11:26 am

    Well written and well said. One of the things I have found missing from the work place is the leader who can identify and clearly communicate to those whom they lead their worth and potential so clearly that they can see it in themselves. This article wonderfully brings this point home and say’s we can each be that leader for ourselves. I love it. Yes! Everyone brings to the table unique experiences, talents, knowledge and creativity; it is time to identify what we each bring so we can more readily share. Thank you for this reminder!

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