"I bought this after being asked to do the dreaded best man speech. I'd done one before but used internet gags and a template, it did the job back then, but this book takes your speech to another level.

I would definitely recommend it if you're preparing a speech."

Michael, Amazon Book Reviewer, November 2022

 

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"Just a quick one to say I was bricking it when my best mate asked me to be best man. Five months later, having read your book, my hands were completely still and I felt composed going into the speech. The humour was natural and not forced and I'm proud of the speech I wrote. Thanks!"

Oliver Walsh, Amazon Book Reviewer, May 2022

 

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"To say this book helped me write a fantastic speech is an understatement. A very easy read, with practical examples and a clear structure (7 steps) to form your own personal speech.

You have to read it from start to finish to get the best outcome! I read the book in less than a week.

I really liked the guidance on what not to do what actually to do so perfect.

You don't have to grill the best man and you don't need to search the internet for crude humour, this book inspires you to build a personal engaging and humorous story.

When a handful of people at the wedding came to say what a wonderful heartfelt and humorous speech it was, you know that you have delivered an outstanding outcome.

Highly recommend this book and also aid in public speaking."

Oxford 1981, Amazon Book Reviewer, January 2022

 

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"I am by far no public speaker, the speech I gave tore the house down.

I got so many compliments after at the party, the next day even two days later I got calls saying how good the speech was."

Alison C., Amazon Book Reviewer, Reviewed in the United States, Verified Purchase, October 2021

 

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"I did the speech last week and it couldn't have gone down better - lots of people I didn't know came up to me afterwards to say it's the best speech they've ever heard, and did my job include lots of public speaking  ....which it usually doesn't!

It was genuinely one of the best days of my life and I couldn't have done it without Simon's wise advice. "Once a best man, always a best man" - apply what's in this book and you"ll be proud to say this.

It has given me so much confidence generally and has been such a wonderful journey of growth. Thank you so much Simon for helping all the best men out there."

RG, Amazon Book Reviewer, A verified purchaser, September 2021

 

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"A huge thank you to the author. I have never spoken in public before and quite frankly I was nervous.

The speech was only at one of the most exclusive hotels in London ... so expectations were high to match the venue, erk!

However, thanks to the guidance of the book I delivered an authentic and heartfelt speech that (slightly to my amazement after the event) really was absolutely loved by the audience.

I am not in any way connected, I found this book by chance and genuinely believe it transformed my speech.

Simon, thank you!"

S, Amazon Book Reviewer, A verified purchaser, Reviewed in the UK, August 2021

 

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"I had to give a best man speech at my brother's wedding. In German, mind you. I've lived in the US for more than a decade, during which time I've become somewhat rusty in my native tongue. I was nervous about the prospect. Apart from my proposal to my now wife a few years ago, this would be the most important speech of my life. It was the final speech of the wedding. It would set the tone for the celebrations to come on the dance floor. The stakes were high. I had to deliver fireworks.

Enter "The Best Man Speaker". What a book. Simon explains in simple, humorous terms exactly what to do in order to prepare a cracking speech. I followed the blueprint step by step, almost to a tee - except that I did memorize my entire 9 minute speech.

Let me tell you: this stuff just works. Universally. Crucially, I spoke without any notes. And yes, I did have a very brief blackout moment, but recovered swiftly. The risk was 100% worth it - I was able to fully focus on delivery. The speech was a phenomenal success. People laughed. People cried. But most importantly, my brother and his wife had an amazing time and so did I. I really cherished giving the speech. Over the course of the evening, a couple dozen people congratulated me. People even asked me if I could speak at their future wedding one day.

This was a very meaningful accomplishment for me personally. I highly recommend this book's formula -- it is specific enough to put a very functional and proven structure in place for your speech, yet leaves full flexibility to really personalize the content so you can honor the groom in a bespoke, deeply personal way that feels authentic."

Philsen, Amazon Book Reviewer, Reviewed in the United States, August 2021

 

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"As a complete stranger to public speaking I was absolutely dreading the prospect of speaking at my best friend's wedding. This book ultimately helped me to construct, learn and deliver a speech which received great feedback from the friends and family of the bride and groom. Some even went as far as saying it was the best speech they've heard.

The book offers a simple formulaic approach to preparing the speech, and if followed properly you won't go too wrong. In addition to advice on writing the speech there is plenty of practical advice on practice and delivery.

The book strikes the perfect balance between brevity and providing suffficient detail. The whole book can probably be read in a couple of evenings, leaving plenty of time to getting down to the job of writing the speech.

I can't recommend this book enough to anyone who is concerned about an upcoming speech or isn't quite sure where to start."

Andrew Drayton, Amazon Book Reviewer, May 2021

 

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"Wedding unfortunately cancelled but this gives me longer to prepare, this was a helpful guideline of the expectations of what to do."

Ashbish, Amazon Book Reviewer, March 2020

 

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"Was best man for a good friend. This book really helps you conceptualise your ideas and add a bit of structure... really did lay a good foundation to build off and it's written simply in a way you can digest."

Henry, Amazon Book Reviewer,  January 2020

 

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"I gave a Best Man speech earlier this year and I am so glad I had this book. It gave such insightful advice on how to write and deliver a great Best Man Speech, and also explained brilliantly how to make a hit with the whole audience including the families (very important!)

I also particularly appreciated that the book gives you a process by which you can develop a speech which is tailored to the groom himself, and steers well clear of the generic copy and paste Best Man jokes you often find online. With a little work this book explains how you can do so much better, and also gives some excellent practical tips for dealing with the nerves.

All in all this is a great 'how to' on being a Best Man and I thoroughly recommend!"

Andrew Rudlin, Amazon Book Reviewer, November 2019

 

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"I left everything till the last week and this book help a lot.

I got a couple of laughs and saw a few tears, I delivered a pretty good speech, thanks mostly to this book.

I would recommend this book to anyone writing a speech especially a best man speech."

Simmonz09, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER -THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2019

 

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"I was in a bit of a mess trying to plan my speech this book helped me understand what was expected by all parties at the wedding it also helped to make me more confident although it rapidly disappeared on the day."

Rufus the 1st, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2019

 

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"Gave my speech and everyone enjoyed it. Had great feedback after and people were laughing throughout...One thing this book said not to do was have any alchohol beforehand..."

Woodrow, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, July 2019

 

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"I can safely say this book has helped me enormously. I have served as Best Man two years on the run. We have all witnessed Best Man speeches, the good, and the bad. I was determined from the moment I was asked by the Groom to not let him down! But I didn't know where to start. I had so many anecdotes, stories and jokes about him - I just wasn't confident in getting it into a form that would do our friendship justice.

Fortunately, Simon's book was there to give me the building blocks to making a speech I could hold my head up high with. Simon gets it - we may come from different backgrounds where we regularly do public speaking or none at all, we may have lots of nerves or feel pretty confident about giving a speech. Yet the kicker is bringing it all together so that on the day, our nerves don't get the better of us, and we are able to perform as we would dearly hope to.

The feedback I have had from my most recent Best Man Speech has been incredible, and I'm glad to play such a positive role in my best friend's big day.

Simon's book has provided such valuable insights and lessons whcih I will be able to take forward into other areas of my life. If you have any doubts or concerns about how to approach the preparing and giving of your Best Man Speech, I cannot recommend this book enough.

It will be a game-changer, go do it, and do it now. Thank you, Simon. Onwards!"

Daniel Stander, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE,  July 2019

 

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"Highly recommend this book. It is excellent.

Good, clear advice from someone who actually knows what they are talking about. So often, 'advice' for best men on websites and books is so off the mark, this is precisely the opposite and I found it incredibly helpful in drafting and delivering my speech."

David, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, June 2019

 

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"Simon Bucknall's book is simply amazing - a must have for any Best Man who is serious about delivering a speech to be proud of.

It sets out a very simple formula for preparing the speech, starting with capturing real life material. The book then explains how to outline the speech, hone and deliver it. You'll need to put in some effort. You may even have moments of panic and doubt that your raw material is good enough.

But trust in Simon's book and it will show you how to turn real-life raw material into absolute comedy gold guaranteed to thrill.

I cannot recommend the book enough."

Ryan, a very proud Best Man, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, May 2019

 

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"If you're struggling on where to start for a speech buy this.

I am petrified of public speaking, so I bought this when I was asked to be best man. Speech went down well, plenty of laughs and even a round of applause."

Karl, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, January 2019

 

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"This is a fantastic book. An absolute must have if you are to write a great speech. I was a female best man and was really worried I couldn't live up to the job. I went onto the internet and read lots of cliched speeches and things to put in them and panicked.

I then came across Simon's book and decided to give it a go as a result of its reviews and Simons experience.

I seriously can't stress enough that this is an amazing book. It walks you through what to expect, how to approach gaining material and themes for the speech and then what order to write it in. Even how to write it in short sentences.

I delivered the speech last weekend to 150 people and I felt really prepared (although very nervous) to stand up and give it my best shot.

Well the number of people that came up to me afterwards to say it was the best best man speech they'd ever heard and that I must be used to public speaking........ I can honestly say it's all down to taking this book seriously and using as my guide.

In short. If you're going to be a best man...

Buy it!"

S.E. House-barklie, Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, January 2019

 

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"I read this on my iPhone via Kindle, I found it quite useful and took away a few tips. I will put these to practice shortly."

Pedro Cheshire, Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, January 2019

 

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"I delivered my first best man speech last Saturday and I feel very proud.

This book enables you to put together a great speech, without resorting to internet gags. Writing a speech requires lots of time and effort and this book helps that process no end.

Do not hesitate in buying this book."

Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, November 2018

 

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"I'm very pleased to say that it went really well; in fact couldn't have gone much better. The changes you recommended were invaluable and really helped immeasurably.

Many thanks again and best wishes to you."

Toni B-P, Book Reviewer, THE GROOM SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE TO THE WEDDING GROOM SPEECH, October 2018

 

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"I purchased this a few weeks ago before having to make a best man's speech and, as I was told after, 'absolutley nailed it'. Through a simple formulaic method the book shows you how to create a unique, personal, and amusing speech.

I would recommend giving yourself a couple of weeks so you have enough time to re-edit the speech (several times), practice with a family member (I used the wife and kids), and then re-edit again. I wouldn't say I enjoyed giving the speech but I enjoyed playing my part in making the wedding a special day and this book was a part in helping make that happen."

Dave, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, October 2018

 

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"Short, to the point, practical guide which I found really useful in writing a speech for my brothers wedding. Helps with content, structure and delivery.

I'd recommend to anyone!"

Michael D., Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER -THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, September 2018

 

 

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"This book was a fantastic help - it is clear, concise, easy to read and offers excellent advice. Stop reading the internet for cliches and write something authentic and specific to the groom who has chosen you, he deserves a speech that is real - and this book will tell you how!

I bought a few similarly-themed books but Simon's was by far the best."

James Truswell, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER -  THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, July 2018

 

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"This book is incredibly written. More than the contents of what to include in the best man speech, this book outlines the approach that you should take to the speech from the very start. It so helpfully instructs on how and where to gain the right material and guides you on how to organise it and most importantly communicate it effectively.

The book also has wider applications, I will certainly be using many of the tips and principles when public speaking in the future!!

Just so you know, I bought this book with 2 weeks until the wedding and after the speech more than 20 people told me they thought the speech was brilliant, which surprised me!"

Bobby, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, July 2018

 

 

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"I can't recommend this book highly enough. Helped me massively in preparing and delivering the speech.

I also learnt some great tips about public speaking in general so I'm really happy I read this book!

If you're in any way nervous or need guidance about a best man speech then I'm sure this book will really help you! Thanks Simon!

Warren Ostler, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, 2018

 

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"This book was a fantastic platform in helping me to get my speech written and in handling my nerves of public speaking. I got a lot of praise for my speech and I couldn't recommend this book enough."

Amazon Customer, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, July 2018

 

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"Helped me BIG TIME with my speech. I was very nervous a year before the big day but with a read of this book and plenty of time to prepare you won't go wrong buying this book."

Nicky Wood, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, January 2018

 

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"This book saved my speech. After weeks of floundering, gathering of not-so-funny off the shelf internet gags and an accumulation of nerves, I bought this book after Simon, the author, had been recommended to me by a close friend.

I dismissed what I'd already written down on scraps of paper and left aside the desire to just humiliate the groom and make the wedding guests laugh (and probably cringe)...

I found that this book gently held my hand and talked me through the steps to build a great and memorable speech. The tips were brilliant: don't just focus on gathering embarrassing stories from the groom's friend but get an ll round view from his family, all friends and the bride!

How to build the jokes: the toppers, the change in direction - all brilliant tips and easy to implement.

I was so pleased with the result but more importantly, the wedding guests told me that it had been the best speech they'd heard. They said that it was very funny, well balanced and authentic.

The Groom still speaks to me.

My tip: if you've been given the task (and honour) of writing a best man speech, buy this book. One of the best investments I've made."

Harry Friend, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, November 2017

 

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Purchased the book a couple of months ago but didn't want to review until the speech was over. I am so happy I got this book. Helped me out so much and the audience loved the speech. I think I surprised myself.

If you stick to what the book says, your speech will be a success."

Amazon Customer, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, November 2017

 

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"I have been best man three times, previous speeches were based on cliches, the last one was based on the advice from this book. No clues, author deserves all the royalties.

Best money I have ever spent."

J. Burrows, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, October 2017

 

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"My husband was the best man. He gained much knowledge by reading this book and delivered an excellent speech. He could not have done it without this book."

Patsy, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, October 2017

 

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"The Best Man Speech was on Saturday and it went extraordinarily well! In fact, it couldn't have gone better!

Huge amount of compliments afterwards - I felt like a minor celebrity.

The photographer said it's the best speech he's heard in ten years..."

Richard S., Best Man, September 2017

 

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"You need to get this book if you have a Best Man's speech coming up. The advice here is gold and my only regret was not reading it earlier (I left myself a week or so before the event before I read it and actioned the advice).

If I'd read it weeks or months in advance not only would I not have been as nervous (which was much anyway due to the tips in the book) and I reckon my speech could have been even better than it was (and I got some great feedback about mine).

Do yourself a favour and get it!"

Paddylad, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2017

 

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"If you are going to be a best man and need help with the dreaded speech I highly recommend that you  purchase this book right now. Not only will it help you to come up with a great speech it is actually a fun experience working through the different processes that go into producing material.

It gave me the confidence to go into the day feeling prepared and excited rather than completely nervous and if I ever come across someone who is going to be a best man I will always tell them to buy this book."

Chris, Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2017

 

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"I rarely leave reviews, but as others have also previously stated here, this book totally commands one. Until I discovered this book I was floundering! Having previously been a Best Man made no difference at all! The thought of giving the Best Man speech was occupying my thoughts and I was concerned and lacking direction.

Simon's advice in this book changed everything.

A really enjoyable read, packed with great advice and easy to follow instructions on how to construct an engaging and crowd-pleasing speech that ultimately pleased my brother, his new wife and the whole family immensely.

The book covers everything you will need - from techniques on how to compile your 'raw material' through to how to edit, polish and hone the speech, coping with nerves and emotions and the final delivery.

By the time it came to making my speech (on the day I was actually fifth in line!!) I felt extremely confident and was actually raring to go. You obviously need to put in a lot of hard work but the rewards are worth it.

I cannot recommend this book highly enough! Well done Simon."

Matt F., Amazon Book Reviewer, Paperback, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2017

 

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"At 56, and totally out of practice, when my son asked me to be his best man I needed help! Luckily Simon's book guided me in simple steps to not only write a speech but deliver it, without too many nerves, thanks Simon your a lifesaver!"

Mike the Gardener, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2017

 

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"This book was so helpful it is difficult to recommend it highly enough!

As many are, I was racked by fear at the prospect of making this speech and couldn't be further from a natural speaker. The structure and guidance this book gave was invaluable and helped to make it a success.

I will be eternally grateful to Simon for giving this advice so that I didn't make an absolute berk of myself on the day."

Amazon Customer, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition - Verified Purchase, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2017

 

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"Simon, I just want to thank you for producing such a brilliant book in your 'The Best Man Speaker - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE'.

I am not used to public speaking and from the moment my brother asked me to be his best man I would think about having to do the speech every day but after purchasing your book and following your instructions unbelievably I managed to come up with a great speech which gave me the confidence to go into the day (last Saturday) feeling prepared and once I got started I actually really enjoyed the experience.

I could not have done this without your insight and want you to know what an incredible gift you have in being able to help people like myself get through a potential difficult situation.

I will always recommend your book to any future best man I meet and good luck with all your adventures in the future."

Chris Hope, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, August 2017

[Review sent direct to Simon via website]

 

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"Very helpful read. Simon provides practical assistance, guidance and handy hints - must read for any prospective Best Man!

You just need to watch his YouTube clip to see he definitely knows what he is talking about..."

GRANT, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, June 2017

 

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"Best man speech for 180! ... Wasn't sure where to start what to say but after reading Simon's book I feel happy and confident."

[Read full review on Amazon!]

James Young, Amazon Book Reviewer, Kindle Edition, THE BEST MAN SPEAKER - THE DEFINITIVE GUIDE, March 2017

 

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"The thought of doing my best friend's best man speech had me concerned about this for months. Giving a wedding speech was one of my greatest fears, as I'm sure a lot of people can relate to!

This book gave me the confidence and ability to craft and structure a speech which the groom described as fantastic